i felt the need to write this after the last several days. this is something that i know some are tired of hearing but it's because they just don't get it & frankly never will. why is the gender of MY children such a concern to others? why do they make such a big deal out of it? it doesn't bother me that i have 2 boys until someone opens their mouth. why is it ok for people who don't know me to make comments about the sex of my children? it doesn't affect them. they're not their kids. it's like they look at me like something is wrong with me and that my family is less than perfect just because i don't have a girl in it. like every family must have one of each. i'd like to know what idiot made up that standard of the "perfect family" because i'd like to beat the shit out of them! the older my boys get the more i enjoy having 2 boys. they play together so well and have so much in common. they love playing with the disney cars in branson's room and sitting down together to watch spongebob. if i had 1 of each they might not get along that great and probably wouldn't have so much in common. so if i had THREE boys can you imagine the number of disney cars and spongebob paraphernalia i would have in my house?! how much fun would that be? i think it would be a blast to hear all 3 of them in their rooms playing together. so why is it such a concern to others?
i know that i am sick of hearing other comments about the gender make up of my kids and honestly i don't care if people are tired of me talking about this topic. because if you are then you don't know what it's like because you probably have at least 1 of each. when people stop making stupid comments then i'll finally stop talking about this very sensitive subject. i'm tired of people being so hateful to me because of this subject! i wanted to rip the lady's hair out yesterday at the hospital that kept calling jaxon a girl even after i told him he was a boy. she just kept on & on about how beautiful my daughter was, asking HER name and continued telling me how i had the perfect pair, a boy & a girl. by this point i was getting so ill because i had already told her HIS name was jaxon. i told her i didn't have a girl and a boy that i had 2 boys. she looked at me and asked if i was going to have another girl. UGH!! shut up woman you're a freakin idiot!! jaxon was wearing boy clothes, in boy colors! almost the exact colors branson was wearing. UGH! i'm just fed up with it.
also i have completely 100% decided *IF* we are to have anymore, we will NOT be sharing the gender with anyone, not even our own friends, families or strangers until the birth. i don't want anyone's negative comments to ruin or influence the way i/ we feel about what would be our third and final child. but for your information, know the names have already been chosen as well as the room decor. and like always they will remain a secret until the birth as well! and whichever one we don't use we won't give that information out either. we've always kept the names a secret and the room but now i want to keep the gender a secret as well. some may say why not let it be a surprise to everyone and even us not find out. no, i can't do that. i want to know so i know what i need to prepare for physically and mentally. if it would be another boy i need to have the proper therapies lined up for after the birth because it is inevitable that another son will require the same therapies the other 2 have had. i want to be able to enjoy (as much as possible) just the joys of having another baby in the family no matter what gender it is & i can't do that with other people putting in their negative, rude 2 cents worth in. i already know the medical battles that i will face once i reach a certain point in the pregnancy so i'd prefer to just remove all of the stress & negativity every way possible.
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