ok i know i had my moment in time where all i wanted was a girl for many different reasons and got so tired of hearing all the mean negative comments about having all boys. there was even a period it hurt to be around people with girls (and i know some of you know exactly what i mean!!) not that i didn't like those little girls but it just hurt and if you've never been there you'll never understand. but my gosh what is up with all the negativity towards girls lately?! from the internet to tv shows, to people in real life. "I NEVER want a girl bc they're filled with nothing but drama, tantrums, etc" really? i've seen little boys that need the pure and total crap beat out of them for the way they act so don't just say girls are the only little drama queens. are they different? umm yeah i've figured that out! and i mean that in a good way. i can't believe the differences developmentally in my 3!! branson needed so many therapies to help him and is still needing help at school age. jaxon needed some therapies but not to the extent as branson did. they still followed the same timeline as far as sitting up and other small things like that. but her... in a matter of 2 months she did everything all at once!! she went from doing nothing but laying like a lump to rolling over, sitting up, pulling up, crawling, holding her bottle. feeding herself, babbling and self expression of wants. all before the boys even did any of this. so it makes me wonder is it bc she's a carrier of whatever this problem is and will pass it to her kids and the boys were receivers? i guess we won't know until #4 gets here and see if he/she hits milestones or is delayed.
but my gosh the comments i hear people say about girls lately is just horrible! from everything about criticizing their huge bows to how later on you're going to have to deal with their little attitudes. let me just tell you the attitudes are just as bad from boys, i have jaxon. enough explanation haha. that child can be the sweetest most loving thing but then he can throw a moucka fit that'll make your head spin (luckily we're always at home when he decides to do this) but i love each one of them equally, not differently, the same. they're all 3 my kids, they all 3 have different personalities but i don't love them differently. i've never understood this saying. i handle them differently because their personalities are different but i don't love them differently. that's just an asinine comment to make to me. just like double standards i was raised with. i wasn't allowed to stay at home alone while my parents went on a trip and i was 18. my brother was allowed to when he was 16 just because he was a boy. he got away with SO much more stuff than i could fathom because yet again he was a boy. those types of things just don't fly with me. if curfew for your sister is 11pm, curfew for you is 11pm as well.
the things i've seen lately on the internet about girl hate is just awful!! take this guy for example (reasons why I'm glad I NEVER had a girl) ... he says he's relieved he never had girls. whaaat?!!! his reasons are just stupid in my opinion!! he doesn't like princesses, periods, clothes, bieber, toilet paper usage, really toilet paper makes you glad you never had girls. you need some serious help dude. and the one that really gets me is pregnancy. he's glad he'll never have to deal with that. hey jackass your son can get a girl pregnant and you act like "ol well not mine or his problem. she can deal with it herself" no no no!!! if one of my boys got a girl pregnant they're going to do the right thing and help her with it. they're not just going to say "thanks for the great time" and split. then admitting guys are messy and girls aren't, how he doesn't want to deal with that and taking her into the men's public bathroom. they have family rooms in almost every place now for this purpose of dad's taking their daughters to the bathroom. none of his arguments are valid excuses to me. they're crap and a way of just being mean. i'd say this even if i didn't have a girl. then what's so sad i just found this article too, these parents are rejecting their daughter for a son that the hospital gave them on accident. whoa what! you mean to tell me you don't want your own child but are going to fight for custody of a child that isn't even yours just because yours was a girl. that is awful! (parents don't want their own child because she's a girl)
i just can't for the life of me understand why some people are so hateful towards girls lately. several years ago it's all anyone wanted and if you didn't have one then something was wrong with you. now all i hear about is how "oh no i don't want a girl because..." unless you give me a good, valid reason as to why then i think you're just being rude and hating on girls. i'll be the first to admit i wanted a girl so bad but then the closer it got time for her to arrive the more i honestly worried about the differences of diapering, how was she going to fit in with 2 boys. i really felt like a new mom again and that i was starting over. but that quickly passed after 2 months. it was an adjustment but a new baby is always an adjustment doesn't matter if you're going from 1-2 or 3-4. it takes time so that isn't even a great argument but an understandable one.
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